An ethical will conveys life lessons, blessings, and hopes for future generations. Dating back 3,000 years, this non-legal document complements traditional wills by sharing what money can’t buy.
What to Include
- Core values you hope to impart
- Important life lessons learned
- Family stories that illustrate your beliefs
- Hopes for future generations
- Apologies or forgiveness you want to express
Format Options
Choose what feels authentic:
- Letter: To specific individuals or “To My Descendants”
- List: “10 Things I Want You to Know”
- Audio/Video: Recorded message
- Creative: Accompany with photos or artwork
Writing Prompts
To spark reflection:
- What are you most grateful for?
- What challenges taught you the most?
- What traditions do you hope continue?
- What advice would you give your 20-year-old self?
When to Share
Consider these moments:
- Major family gatherings
- Milestone birthdays
- While still healthy (not just at end-of-life)
- As a living document updated periodically
Combining with Legal Documents
Some families attach ethical wills to:
- Last Will and Testament
- Advance Healthcare Directives
- Trust documents
A 2023 University of Toronto study found that recipients of ethical wills reported stronger family connections and clearer sense of identity. Your wisdom is the most precious inheritance you can offer.
